I get it. You see a book titled "Talk Your Way In," and your first thought is probably, "Oh great, a manual for my kid to become a master manipulator." You're picturing them using it to get out of chores, stay up all night, and somehow convince you that a pizza is a perfectly balanced meal.
And, well, you're not entirely wrong. This book is a guide for teens to get what they want.
But before you hide it, let's talk about why that's actually a good thing.
The End of the Endless Arguments
Tired of the constant "Why can't I?" debates? The ones where your teen just repeats the same request louder and with more frustration, trapping you in a cycle of explaining your decisions?
This book is the solution to that problem.
Instead of whining or pouting, your kids will learn to make a logical case for what they want. They'll learn to understand your perspective, prepare their arguments, and offer solutions instead of just demands. Imagine a world where your teen says, "I have a big test tomorrow and I study better at night. Can I have an extra half hour to go over my notes?" instead of just pleading, "PLEASE, just 30 more minutes!"
When they see that a well-reasoned argument works better than a tantrum, they'll stop having tantrums.
A Skill That Lasts a Lifetime
This isn't just about winning a negotiation for more screen time. It's about teaching your teen a fundamental life skill. As adults, we negotiate every single day—at work, with our partners, and even when buying a car. By learning to communicate effectively now, they'll have a massive advantage later in life.
Think about college interviews, job applications, or even managing friendships. The ability to articulate their thoughts clearly, stand up for themselves, and handle disagreements is invaluable. This book teaches them to think before they speak, to look for solutions instead of giving up, and to become more confident in their own voice.
And here's a bonus you might not expect: as your teens learn to build a better argument, they'll also start to understand your reasons for saying no. They’ll learn to be more respectful and thoughtful, and they'll start developing emotional intelligence, which is a skill that will serve them in every relationship they'll ever have.
So, don't hide this book. Instead, read it yourself. You might just find that teaching your kids to negotiate doesn't lead to more battles—it leads to better, more thoughtful conversations. And a whole lot less whining.
Ready to learn the art of getting what you want? This is just a taste of what's inside my new book. It's packed with practical tips, real-world examples, and step-by-step guidance to help you negotiate like a pro.
Order your copy today
and start turning those "No's" into "Yes's." Or, if you're a teacher or parent and want to talk more about these ideas, feel free to email me to discuss a talk or workshop. Let's start the conversation!
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Shambhavi Choudhary, Author
Hyderabad, India, 9 June 2025
