Ever asked your parents for something you really wanted, only to get an instant "No"? You're not alone. It's a tale as old as time. Whether it's a new video game, a later curfew, or even a car, that two-letter word can feel like a solid brick wall.
But what if you could turn that "No" into a "Yes"?
The truth is, getting what you want isn't just about wishing for it—it's about knowing how to ask. It's a skill called negotiation, and it's a lot like learning an art form. You can master it, and it can change everything.
The Secret Formula
Think about the last time you wanted something big. Did you just blurt it out when your parents were busy or stressed? That's a common mistake. Successful negotiation is all about a secret formula, which you can remember with the phrase:
"Unique Turtles Paint Purple Pictures."
This isn't just a fun saying; it's a blueprint for getting your way. Each letter stands for a key principle:
Understanding: Do you really get what makes your parents tick? What are their concerns?
Timing: Is there a perfect moment to ask? Hint: It's probably not right after they've had a long, tough day.
Persistence: One "No" doesn't mean it's over. How do you keep the conversation going without being annoying?
Preparation: Have you done your homework? Knowing what they'll say and having your answers ready is a game-changer.
Positivity: A good attitude goes a long way.
Mastering these six simple ideas can make the difference between a frustrating shutdown and a successful conversation. It shows your parents you're serious, responsible, and ready for more freedom.
Ready to learn the art of getting what you want? This is just a taste of what's inside my new book. It's packed with practical tips, real-world examples, and step-by-step guidance to help you negotiate like a pro.
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and start turning those "No's" into "Yes's." Or, if you're a teacher or parent and want to talk more about these ideas, feel free to email me to discuss a talk or workshop. Let's start the conversation!
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Shambhavi Choudhary, Author
Hyderabad, India, 17 August 2025
